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Vol.28
Kakehiki(Playing Games). |
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The meaning of the term
gkakehikih is said to have come
from the strategy of attack
(kake) and retreat (hiki) in a
battle.
I agree that
kakehiki is an important factor
in wars, competitive sports,
and business activities
involving transactions. On the
other hand, if this kind of
kakehiki game occurs in human
relationships, a variety of
problems may arise. Nowadays, I
often see something like gKoi
no Kakehiki (The Game of Love)h
or similar titles (or themes)
for TV drama shows and Internet
articles.
I wonft
criticize these programs and
topics as long as they are
depicted as comedy. In the
current trend of frivolous
relationships between people,
however, Ifm afraid that young
people will play kakehiki games
in real romances.
Everyone basically plays the
percentages and has things that
cannot be brushed under the
carpet, so I understand that
people play some games in
romances.
However,
playing too many will call your
credibility into question and
lose your trust sooner or
later. You should know that
romances or personal
relationships built on such
games wonft last long. Without
affectation and kakehiki games,
you can have lasting
relationships and earn the
trust of your company and
society.
This requires
a little courage, but once you
do, Ifm sure that youfll have a
simple, easy life.
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